Telling Tinder Tales - dating and romance stories from around the world

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Telling Tinder Tales - dating and romance stories from around the world

We've gathered comedians and folks from all over the world to tell us their tales of dating and romance. Listen for the successes and the shockers, the laughter and the tears, of connecting in the modern world. Live show is at Edinburgh Fringe Festival, Murphy's, 130 High St, Edinburgh EH1 1QS Hosted by Chris O'Neill and Thomasin Lockwood. If you have a tale to tell, please get in touch: Performers & Public Or email us: tellingtindertales@gmail.com Telling Tinder Tales is also a live show. Come join us and tell your tale! Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @TellingTinderTales

  1. Lonely Hearts, and A Hollywood Love Story #21

    9 JUL

    Lonely Hearts, and A Hollywood Love Story #21

    In this funny and feel-good episode of Telling Tinder Tales, hosts Chris O'Neill and Thomasin Lockwood welcome two fantastic guests: actress, comedian, and writer Helen Lederer, and marketing exec Dunstan Kesseler. Helen kicks things off with a wonderfully awkward Lonely Hearts dating story from the pre-Tinder era—complete with a Guardian newspaper, an uncomfortably long hand-holding session, and a wife. She shares the kind of tale only she could: self-deprecating, sharp, and filled with charm. Then, Dunstan brings the unexpected: a wild night out in LA involving tequila, Big Wangs (yes, the bar), a Drew Barrymore impression, and a romantic twist. It’s the kind of story screenwriters dream of—except it’s all true. 🎙️ Featuring hilarious anecdotes, thoughtful questions, and behind-the-scenes glimpses into dating then vs. now, this episode is perfect for fans of dating podcasts, romantic comedy lovers, and anyone who’s ever swiped right—or answered a Lonely Hearts ad. Thank you to Helen Lederer @helenlederer and Dunstan Kesseler @dunstankesseler Mentioned in this episode: Timeout Magazine, The Guardian, Big Wangs LAHelen Lederer’s memoir “Not That I’m Bitter” Fawlty Towers play (West End run through September!)Dunstan’s father’s book Unreliable Memories (maybe?) 🔗 Connect with us: 📸 Instagram: @TellingTinderTales 🎭 Catch us LIVE at the Edinburgh Fringe Festival ⭐ Love the show? Leave a 5-star review and help us grow! #DatingPodcast #HelenLederer #EdinburghFringe2025 #TinderFails #RomanticComedy #FunnyPodcast #PodcastRecommendations #MeetCute #LoveStories #OnlineDating #ComediansOnDating #BigWangsLA

    29 min
  2. Ends with a Cuddle, Reddit Love, and A Brief Kink Encounter #19

    25 JUN

    Ends with a Cuddle, Reddit Love, and A Brief Kink Encounter #19

    In this laugh-out-loud and unexpectedly heartfelt episode of Telling Tinder Tales, your hosts Chris O'Neill and Thomasin Lockwood welcome three brilliant guests with three wildly different dating stories—from cringe-worthy encounters to serendipitous romance. 🎙️ First up is Bondy, a musician, who shares a cautionary tale about dating while still living with an ex and how a well-meaning profile update in Paris accidentally tanked a budding connection. 📚 Then, author Lauren joins us from California to recount how a viral Reddit post about emotional oversharing led to not only a book deal but also meeting her future husband—yes, from a DM on Reddit! It’s a real-life rom-com for the digital age. 🎭 Finally, Ben—actor, writer, and brave soul—recounts a jaw-dropping experience on a lesser-known kink dating app involving a café, a notepad, and a urological themed interrogation. You’ll laugh, you’ll wince, and you’ll never look at a café date the same way again. Whether you’re dating, swiping, or just love juicy stories about modern romance, this episode is packed with honesty, humour, and a touch of horror. Tune in for cringe, chemistry, and a few cross-shaped surprises. — Follow, subscribe, and leave a review—5 stars might just get you a DM from Thomasin (or a marriage proposal). One star? Well, let’s just say we know a urologist… Guests: Bondy https://bondykaye.com/music/ Lauren https://www.waterstones.com/book/looking-for-something-serious/lauren-josephine/9798989116614 Ben @benmansbridgeactor / @littlenugget.pictures/ Follow us @TellingTinderTales on TikTok and Instagram

    35 min
  3. Parking Problems, Lockdown Love, and Clowning Around #17

    12 JUN

    Parking Problems, Lockdown Love, and Clowning Around #17

    Welcome to another hilariously heartwarming episode of Telling Tinder Tales, the podcast where your favourite hosts Chris O'Neill and Thomasin Lockwood invite real guests to share their wild, wonderful, and downright weird dating stories. In this episode, we welcome Angie, Liam, and Emily, each calling in from across the UK and Europe to reveal their most memorable dating experiences—from romantic mishaps to accidental meet-cutes. 🔥 Highlights include: Liam's date in Edinburgh, complete with a protective German Shepherd, broken shelves, and parking issues.Angie's unexpected lockdown romance sparked by a Zoom quiz.Emily's jaw-dropping clown school adventure in France, where seduction took the form of white-boy rap battles and pirate improv.Expect awkward confessions, witty banter, emotional vulnerability, and some serious lessons in love, compatibility, and crisis management. Whether you’re a dating app veteran or still clinging to romantic comedy dreams, this episode is full of laughs, cringe, and genuine connection. 🎭 Featuring real people, real stories, and real chaos from dating apps and the world beyond. 👉 Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and review—because five stars might just save someone’s parking ticket. 📍Follow us on Instagram: @tellingtindertales 🎤 Catch our live shows in Derby, Edinburgh, Shrewsbury, Buxton, Colchester & more. Guests: Liam Wallace @drawn.andquartered Emily Haldane @dfilthdrag theperformeremily.com/about-me/

    24 min
  4. An Awakening, and The Oxfam Dance #16

    3 JUN

    An Awakening, and The Oxfam Dance #16

    In this episode of Telling Tinder Tales, hosts Chris O’Neill and Thomasin Lockwood welcome two brilliant guests, Aram from East London and Austin from Lincoln, for a journey through love, loss, and late-night absurdity in the world of dating. 💔 Aram shares a deeply personal and poignant story from the pre-Tinder era of Yahoo Messenger in Iran — a blind date that turns into a disappearing act, and the unexpected self-discovery that followed. From navigating oppressive cultural norms to exploring early stirrings of sexuality, her tale is as heartfelt as it is eye-opening. 🦌 Austin, meanwhile, brings the laughs with a chaotic night out in a goth nightclub while dressed as Rudolph the Rednosed Reindeer. He introduces us to the "Oxfam Dance", a brutal yet hilarious phenomenon that people with disabilities face on nights out. His story of being hit on, ghosted, kissed, and stared at by a fiancé—all in one night—is nothing short of wild. ✨ Themes in this episode include: Online dating before TinderQueer awakening and cultural identityDisability and dating experiencesNightlife chaos and emotional resilienceFunny, awkward, and very real modern dating failsWhether you're swiping, ghosting, dancing awkwardly in a mascot costume, or accidentally calling your high school crush—this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen now for an honest, hilarious, and occasionally heartbreaking glimpse into real people's dating lives. If you love modern love stories told with heart and humour, you won’t want to miss this one. 👉 Follow us on Instagram and TikTok: @tellingtindertales 📬 Got a tale to tell? Email: tellingtindertales@gmail.com 🌟 Like the show? Leave a 5-star review—and maybe even get a phone number.

    24 min

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We've gathered comedians and folks from all over the world to tell us their tales of dating and romance. Listen for the successes and the shockers, the laughter and the tears, of connecting in the modern world. Live show is at Edinburgh Fringe Festival, Murphy's, 130 High St, Edinburgh EH1 1QS Hosted by Chris O'Neill and Thomasin Lockwood. If you have a tale to tell, please get in touch: Performers & Public Or email us: tellingtindertales@gmail.com Telling Tinder Tales is also a live show. Come join us and tell your tale! Follow us on Instagram and TikTok @TellingTinderTales

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